Manila: The Council for the Welfare of Children (CWC) has introduced a 'Parent's Pocket Guide' designed to assist families in preventing child sexual abuse through open communication, body safety education, and digital awareness.
According to Philippines News Agency, the guide was presented through a series of cards on the CWC's Facebook page, emphasizing the crucial role of child sexual abuse awareness (CSAA) as a conversation that should begin at home. The CWC highlighted the challenges of ensuring children's safety, especially in the online world where dangers are not immediately visible.
A central theme of the campaign is 'My Body, My Rules,' which encourages parents to teach children that they are in control of their own bodies. The CWC advocates for using correct anatomical terms instead of nicknames, such as 'titi, pekpek, or suso,' to help children report inappropriate behavior clearly and without confusion. Children are also encouraged to say 'no' to physical interactions like hugs or tickling that make them uncomfortable, even if they are from family members or close friends, thereby learning to assert boundaries.
The guide further distinguishes between 'surprises' and 'secrets,' clarifying that surprises are temporary and will be revealed eventually, while secrets can involve long-term concealment. This distinction aims to foster an environment where children feel safe to speak up about anything troubling them. The CWC stresses the importance of being trusted adults who provide a judgment-free zone for children to express their concerns.
Parents are also advised to keep an eye on their children's online activities, as threats can arise from social media and online games. The CWC recommends developing a 'Family Safety Plan' to ensure that children know which trusted adults to approach and which emergency contacts to call in case of any issues.
The agency's overarching message is that safety should be a constant in children's lives, both offline and online, with an emphasis on trust, respect, and ongoing guidance. For those aware of a child facing abuse, discrimination, or bullying, the Makabata Helpline 1383 is available for support.
