Manila: Every year, as the first days of November draw near, cemeteries across the Philippines come alive with flickering candles, the scent of flowers, and a sea of reunited families. All Saints' and All Souls' Days, celebrated every Nov. 1 and 2, are among the country's most cherished occasions for remembering the departed. For Christine Bernadette Marcelino and other Filipinos who now live thousands of miles away from home, distance proves no barrier to honoring their loved ones who have passed on.
According to Philippines News Agency, wherever they are, Filipinos like Marcelino continue to pay respects to their departed loved ones every Undas, often finding creative ways and maximizing the use of new technologies to celebrate the tradition despite the distance. For Marcelino, who has been living in Canada for over a decade, Undas remains an emotional reminder of home. "Even when living abroad, Filipinos never miss the chance to honor their departed loved ones every Undas, embracing modern ways to observe the tradition from afar," Marcelino said. "My family offers mass intentions and prayers at home. We make video calls with our relatives who are visiting the cemetery back home. During the video call, we recall the good and funny memories we shared with our loved ones."
She noted that Undas is not just a solemn occasion but also a family reunion, albeit different from her past experiences in the Philippines. As a child, Marcelino looked forward to visiting her grandfather's grave, cleaning, and painting it the day before. Her family would prepare food, candles, and flowers early in the morning, setting up a tent at the cemetery where they would spend the day sharing meals and memories.
Despite being away for over 13 years, Marcelino ensures her grandfather's resting place is cared for by coordinating with cemetery staff and relatives to maintain and honor the grave.
Amalia Clata, originally from Kisolon Sumilao, Bukidnon, and now residing in Bulakan, Bulacan, also keeps the Undas traditions alive despite living far from her hometown. She creates a small altar at home, lighting candles and offering favorite items of her departed loved ones as a sign of respect. Clata emphasizes the role of technology in bridging distances, using video calls to connect with family during Undas.
Clata reminisces about family gatherings in the cemetery, sharing traditional dishes like suman, puto, and biko. Even now, her relatives continue these practices in the province, highlighting the enduring nature of Filipino traditions during Undas.
